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Platforms For Young People in the Fediverse

/2025-06/session/6-g/

Convener: Gilles

Participants who chose to record their names here:

Notes

Possible closed instances for schools

Kids like Open Source (they can see how it works and play): https://teckids.org/

Some organizations do public announcements of events using the fediverse: @JugendzentrumK7_Stadt_Bonn@bonn.social

Session Yesterday:

  • 11 y.o. not allowed on social media
  • Would be great idea to allow for a school &/or class social media (small, closed)
  • Risks: Important but not interesting (likely bigger on bigger platforms).
  • “public” school yard (allow adults to hear and respond and help).
  • Cool things:
    • Fun.
    • Self-hosted - define your own rules.
    • Allow children to set their own rules.
    • Place to learn, allow them to experiment how Social Networking Works
      • Like experiential learning in prep for the “real” world of social media on the web.
    • Allow kids to learn to shape their own environments digitally.
      • e.g. what emoji’s are allowed?
    • Example: Kids used Google Drive like a social network (“you can’t stop the signal”)
  • Kyle: Note: Reminds me of this: https://a4kids.org/book/shkola/

JAZ-Michael King

Is everything a social network (e.g. google drive)?

  • JAZ
    • Defined by regulation. In some cases: Share something someone can see? That’s a social network.
    • Many countries have forthcoming laws.

KYLE:

  • Are big networks doing it well?
  • Will we need small networks in the future due to regulation in the future?

JAZ

  • Regulators are cutting out small providers, even though small, federated is the solution.
  • Finding a way to keep us able to grow while they’re taking such stances (regulatory, enforcement)…
  • We’re going to have 2-3 interesting years:
    • Growing enforcement
    • “they can’t really, can they?”
  • Take a photo & decide if you’re old enough — obviously shit.

Currently prohibit own children from accessing social media

  • Mind changed (somewhat) with “TecKids” program
    • kids have a right of communication, information
    • one instance of CSAM, enough for life, understand what mods go through.
  • Prefer children use something democratically guided, where they’re not the product - a public playground.
    • Parents close by, rules, older = more freedom.
    • Must learn to fall down
    • Will adjust based on age.
  • Some 9 y.o. using tiktok on phones (and whatsapp), but signed up and know it’s wrong, but asking what adult thinks of it.
  • Want to make fediverse/mastodon attractive (and safe) for young people.
  • I thought gaming was an interesting part (e.g. minecraft - Luanti/MineTest; work adventure)
    • WorkAdventure allows creation of the map and digital proximity communication.
  • Parental control improtant
    • iOS has this (e.g. make it a children’s device).
      • Timing, apps, oversight.
    • Recommendation: Parental controls on the fediverse
      • Could replace Whatsapp BS.
      • Other people currently take photos on holiday and thoughtlessly post to telegram, IG, etc.
      • Solutions for families & federation.
  • Want to protect kids from data-harvesting, but allow them to use safe services and let them communicate.
    • Totally agree. Understand limitations, more interesting in creative solutions that are fun.

JAZ

  • Has worked with Bonfire (potential solution) for a while.
    • In a 1.0 release candidate
    • Working on implementing consent processes.
  • How I got into Mastodon was trying to build a solution for myself
    • Family-focused services would be a killer app
    • Remember child getting older android device (on parent upgrade)
      • Eventually experienced begging for iPhone (peer-pressure)
  • Yubo - France. (I think it’s Yubo www.yubo.live) - thanks!
    • Segregated network: 13-17 only interact with each other.
    • UK & French government consider this regulatorily complient
  • Bonfire:
    • Won’t release until it’s got complience and safety figured out.
    • It’s for communities.
  • Needs: Convice regulators &/or …

Is it a loophole if the kids make it themselves?

  • JAZ - Probably not? Account creator probably has liability.
    • Unlikely issues if family <-> family server setup

Matrix server at school? No.

  • Sometimes parents set this up.

Screen Share: WorkAdventure World

CCC Event

  • Used Decentralized Maps on WorkAdventure for event.
  • Maps connected via loopholes.

Possible to get the timeline of, e.g., Taylor Swift - without the cruft, ads, tracking, and or ability to interact.

“I was 14, and it was not okay [to be connected to the internet]”

Bad content seen in a safe environment is less bad.

JAZ

  • Australia: national cultural approach is the same as teaching kids not to get bit by sharks.
    • It’s the real world.
    • You will swim.
    • Duty of care from parent to not expect Gov. to remove all sharks.
    • We want swimming, and sharks exist.
    • Some of this is our problem, and we want to give you the tools to do it.
  • Bonfire
    • IDEA: Curated federation
      • Kids are allowlist only.
      • “DADMIN / MOMIN (ADMOM)” (dad/mom admins)
      • Content can come in (determined by family editor).
        • By family member, kid.
      • $5/month max
        • Ad-free, consent based, grow-with-your-kids
        • Parental control
      • Kyle - Possible when, e.g. taylor swift is not on the fediverse?
      • JAZ - Regulatory pressure is coming, so interoperability as a requirement may open this up as a possibility.
        • JAZ Happy to help in any way. I’m findable online.